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Ancestors in the Spotlight
What better theme for a family historian than shedding light on something puzzling or unknown. All those dark family secrets, mysteries and unanswered questions, unravelling the who, what, where and why about our ancestors.
Little chinks of light are revealed as we discover who our ancestors were. The birth, marriage and death indexes tell us when key events happened in their lives and through the censuses we find out where they lived, with whom, and what were their occupations. But we have to search further into the dark and beyond, before the chinks of light grow together and slowly illuminate a bigger story.
Until recently, I had never managed to shine any light on my ancestor Edward Henry Coules Colley who vanished from the records after the 1881 census. No one in the family seemed to know what happened to him or was prepared to reveal the 'scandal' surrounding him.
Delving into the criminal records of 1892, I stumbled upon an Edward Colley, convicted of larceny, and imprisoned for 12 months. Could this be him?
Or what about the E Colley, in The Times of 2nd August 1888, a music and dramatic agent, who was listed as a bankrupt - "it had always been his habit to bet on the turf ". Was this him? But without the all important full name, I couldn't be sure. At this point, I hit a brick wall. He didn't appear on the 1901 census, neither could I find a record of his death. I was plunged into darkness once more.
Then a couple of years later, while sorting through some old papers, I discovered a letter written by his son, in which he promised to reveal everything about his father.
I scanned it eagerly. He explained how his father's family enjoyed "nothing but high life and parties" and described his father as being "the playboy of them all".
But just as it was getting interesting he announced, "and this is where I close my book on him with no regret". And I was back in the dark.
In the case of another relative, Charles Gabriel Baker, on the other side of the family, the situation was reversed. I knew exactly what had happened to him due to the detailed information meticulously recorded on the Australian death certificate which I'd discovered in that most traditional of locations - the box in the attic.
The document shone like a spotlight on Charles's life. As well as the usual information - his name, age, place and cause of death - it listed his wife, when and where they'd been married, the number of children living and dead, and the name of his parents, including his mother's maiden name and his father's occupation.
It told me Charles was a professor of music, he'd travelled to Australia in 1867 and died within 6 months of his arrival. It recorded where he'd lived, where he was buried, and even the names of the doctor who'd treated him, the funeral director and the minister who'd carried out the service!
What remained in the dark, though, was the reason for his journey to Australia, how he'd got there and the whereabouts of the rest of his family.
Census records, passenger lists and a notice in The Times, threw some light on Charles's story, though they didn't explain everything.
According to the census returns, Charles was a pupil teacher in London Colney in 1851 and at the time of his marriage in 1856, he was living and teaching in St Mary's, Lambeth. 1858 was the year of The Great Stink, when the authorities could no longer ignore the stench radiating from the Thames, used as a dumping ground for waste and sewage over centuries. It would be around this time that Charles and his wife Susan would lose a son and a daughter. Was it this tragedy which drove them out of the city?
Perhaps. Though not yet to Australia, as two of their children's birth certificates revealed that Charles was teaching music in Stevenage, Hertfordshire in 1863 and 1865.
Stevenage would have been a rural idyll in comparison to the crowded streets of Lambeth. In 1861, Dickens described it as being a village with "the quietest little dwellings". So having escaped the smog and dirt of London, what made them turn their sights to Australia?
Sadly, it was not to be. In May 1868 Charles died from a chronic disease of the lungs, from which he'd apparently been suffering for 2 years. Was this the clue? Had it been their intention to start a new life in a better, healthier climate in the hope that Charles would recover from his illness?
Following her husband's death, Susan returned to England. But without the financial support of a husband, the family were forced apart. The youngest boy, aged 3, stayed with his mother but his elder brothers, aged 9, 6 and 5, would spend their childhood in separate schools and orphanages.
But what of my other relative, that elusive black sheep, Edward Henry Coules Colley? Any glimmer of light there?
Not until a few weeks ago, when quite by chance I came across an elderly woman's burial record of 1962, in Perth, Western Australia. Her father was recorded as Edward Henry Coules Colley, born in England. It had to be my missing ancestor, surely?
Perhaps it had been the ignominy of bankruptcy or imprisonment (or both, or neither!), which drove him out of England to try his luck down-under.
Records showed that he'd married in 1906 (bigamously, obviously!) and died in 1916. I wonder if he continued with his "high life and parties"? Still a few more dark corners in which to shine a light, I suspect.
How intriguing that of these two trails, one should begin in Australia and the other end there.
It was interesting to note that amongst the information on Edward Henry Coules Colley's life in Perth, there was a record of his occupation. Apparently he'd become..er... an estate agent.
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I love genealogy - it's so addictive! Have been researching my ancestors for decades and like you I've found there are some ancestors who refuse to have any light shone on them. It's a wonderful feeling when you finally find a clue though! Glad you found Edward in the end :-)
ReplyDeleteYes, it's a real buzz, isn't it? What I love is that you can never run out things to investigate. There's always something to keep you entertained, whichever branch of the family is calling for attention!
DeleteWhat a fascinating post and amazing facts about your family. I loved reading it all.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Pauline. When you start digging it's always a surprise to find such interesting stories.
DeleteA fascinating trail - and I love the ending! I can see how it can become an addictive hobby. I wonder, Wendy, whether you think the huge quantity of information now available on line about those who live now will make the search easier or harder for future generations? Maybe a little bit of mystery, and scarcer materials, might be the more manageable route.
ReplyDeleteAn interesting thought, Debbie. Something else I wonder about is all those digital photos which sit on our hard drives and never get printed out. An old photo is such a treasure and relatively rare, by comparison. Mind you, even 'real' photos can be just as nameless. I have heaps!
DeleteThanks Wendy, this really shows how persistent you have to be – and lucky sometimes! – when you’re trying to find out about your family history.
ReplyDeleteYes, and patient too! And it's a real treat when something unexpected pops up and solves a mystery that's been a conundrum for years.
DeleteWhat a great post, Wendy! I absolutely love genealogy and admire your perseverance in trying to learn more about your relative. Bless her heart, my great-aunt wrote a two inch thick book that traced my Dad’s lineage from the moment they stepped off the Mayflower. Makes for fascinating reading. However, my Mom’s side was not as well recorded. I do know my great-grandmother had sixteen children once she emigrated from Scotland to America. So I’d imagine I’ve a crazy amount of relatives living in New England alone! *grins* Wishing you and yours a wonderful holiday.
ReplyDeleteWow, Sky, what a gem to have such a record from your family's journey on the Mayflower!
DeleteWhich part of the UK did they come from?
Fascinating - and sad. re the three brothers who were forced apart, i had an Irish colleague who once described his rather heart wrenching childhood. When his mother was widowed, she had no option but to send her boys to the Church run orphanages. Of course, no one considered it relevant to keep the brothers together, and so in less than a year he lost his father, his mother and his siblings - a bit like your relatives's boys.
ReplyDeleteIt's such a common theme. From what I've found out, the younger of the three, at least, was in touch with his mother later, so that's something. One of the elder lads joined the Navy when he was 15. Another avenue to explore!
DeleteFascinating - one of the things I want to try and trace are the people who used to live at our home. Built circa 1769 I would so love to know its history!
ReplyDeleteThere's a chance of making a start on the census returns. As long as they didn't call it something different, then it can be tricky identifying which place they're talking about. At least it's a significant building. In villages, they sometimes refer to the different houses as 'Village', ditto, ditto, ditto... which is always very frustrating!
DeleteWhat a trail - a real adventure and you still have bits to fill in. The ending gave me a good laugh.
ReplyDeleteSay no more!
ReplyDeleteI shall get a copy of his death certificate in the new year and see what other gems come to light!
Truth is more fascinating than fiction. And that doesn't come close to family histories. What a gem of a find for you. And another book/story to share. Love it.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Yes, family historians never know what will turn up next!
DeleteMy New Years resolution is going to be to finish my family research and do my husband's genealogy. Fabulous blog Wendy, bravo :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comment, Janis. Good luck with your research. Hope you discover some gems!
DeleteThis is inspiring research! I've never delved into my past like this and am ashamed to say I don't know where my great grandparents are buried.
ReplyDeleteThere was a time when I didn't know either. And then I got the bug... Mind you, there's still heaps left to find out.
DeleteGreat post, Wendy! I have a friend who does a lot of genealogical research for her fiction. I think she'll enjoy your post, so I'm going to past it along. Happy solstice!
ReplyDeleteThanks Nicole! It would be lovely to compare notes with someone else whose writing is inspired by the same subject matter.
DeleteI am doing some research for a cousin of my husband and she is a direct relation to Edward Henry Coules COLLEY and I have quite a bit of information on the Australian side of the family.
ReplyDeleteI'd be fascinated to know more, Margaret!
DeleteAnd if I can add anything on the UK side, I'd be happy to.
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